Monday, January 11, 2010

The Little Things

I've struck up a correspondence with a fellow from Alt who seems to have a bit of class, and maturity, and intuition. This one line has me wondering even more about him and I'm looking forward to our meeting.

He said, in reference to our future meeting, "...if you have a place you like, let me know. if not, i'm happy to take the lead and pick out a place for us."

Now, it seems to me that this is the perfect thing for a REAL Dom to say! To take the lead, to pick out a place for us, to let me know where it is and when I should be there (within our agreed time frame). I cannot tell you how rare this is, and I think that's why I'm so struck by it! So many times I have made plans to meet someone who professes to be a Dominant and yet I have to make all the arrangements. I pick out the place and the time and how to get there and whatever, whatever. It always seems just wrong! And now I know why. Because it is!

I am intrigued and not a little bit tickled by this approach and am very much looking forward to meeting this man.

It reminds me, once again, what I am looking for. A true gentleman.


nitebyrd said...

A "Take Charge" man! YES!

Eve in Chains said...

I know. What are the odds? :D


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